Counseling
Posted 2010/08/16 00:05, 分类: 2010/August There are variety definition for the term counseling. However, counseling is not about giving advices nor guidance. It is like a mirror whereby helps people to see themselves and their concern through a third party. When you are trying on your new cloth or makeup, what is the next possible thing you would do? Most of us would look for a mirror. Yes, a mirror. We want to know if the outfit suits us or otherwise. Counselor acts as a mirror in this sense. Their responsibility is to reflect the client's feelings and thoughts and to increase the awareness of client problems.
There are times where we forget to clean up the trash in our mind and soul. This will lead us to the complexity of matters to deal with. Some of us could barely see the issue when they are at the downside of their life. Some might even attempt to keep an arm length to the problems. In other words, they are ignoring the situation and letting the thorn grows. When the time reached and everything seems to be out of one's control, they will feel the impact on their and people around them. That is where the time they will want to seek for counseling assistance.
In my own thought, counseling is like "teaching you the methods to catch fishes, instead of cooking it for you". You need to get up by your own in each and every you fall down. Counseling is just a tool in helping you to overcome the obstacles.
"Counseling can be more precisely defined a short term, interpersonal, theory based process of helping persons who are psychologically healthy resolve developmental and situational problems."
(Samuel Gladding, 2000)
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